Extndly is the relationship-first platform for genuine connections.

Stay in touch with the people who matter on your terms. No algorithms, no distractions – just meaningful human connections supported by AI that works for you, not against you and not replacing you.

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Essential features that nurture your relationships

Contact Rhythms

Set personalized cadences for staying in touch with everyone in your network – daily, weekly, monthly, or any timeframe that feels right.

AI Assistant

Your personal relationship manager helps organize your contacts and sends timely reminders without ever taking over human connections.

Privacy-First

Your data is yours alone. We never sell it, share it, or use it for anything other than helping you maintain relationships.

Platform Agnostic

Interact with Extndly's Personal Assistant via Email, Text, WhatsApp, Telegram or the Web. This may be the app you never need to visit.

How Extndly Works

1

Import your contacts

Add people from your existing contact apps or enter them manually. Tag them, add details, notes however makes sense for you.

2

Set your rhythms

Decide how often you'd like to connect with each person – could be weekly for close friends, monthly for colleagues, or quarterly for acquaintances.

3

Receive gentle reminders

Get notifications via text, email, Telegram or WhatsApp when it's time to reach out to someone.

4

Reply with updates

After connecting with someone, simply reply to your reminder with notes, and our AI will update your contact history.

"In a world of scattered social platforms, Extndly brings back the intentionality and joy of maintaining real connections."

Take control of your social world

For the social networker

Manage an expansive network without feeling overwhelmed. Never miss an opportunity to nurture important relationships.

For the busy professional

Keep business relationships warm and meaningful, even when your schedule is packed.

For the social media quitter

Leave behind algorithm-driven platforms without losing touch with the people who matter.

For the thoughtful friend

Be there for people consistently, not just when they pop up on your feed.

Transparent, ethical, & privacy-focused

File over app

Your data is yours. Export it anytime in common formats you can use anywhere else.

AI that serves you

Our AI helps you manage relationships without ever replacing human connection or mining your data.

No surveillance

We don't track your communication or analyze your messages for advertising purposes.

No lock-in

Use the app as much or as little as you want. Reply to reminders without ever opening the app.

Access Extndly Anywhere

Use Extndly on any device with a web browser, or over text, email, Telegram or WhatsApp. Your relationships are always with you.

Extndly app on multiple devices

Ready to rebuild meaningful connections?

Join those taking back control of their social lives with Extndly.